Do they have meaning? I had a dream the other night that I got a phone call. There was a lady calling me that I did not know. She said " @@@@@ told me to tell you that he is sorry and he misses you" She did not say anything more. My friend is a man and we have not talked in some time. This lady who called did mot say who she was, only that my friend was sorry and missed me. Was that a direct message to me, should I take this dream at face value?

I would call your friend

I used to get something similar in dreams where one of my friends is concerned and she always was at her lowest when I went to see her the next day and she said that she had been wanting me to come to her....so call him, you had this for a reason.

Contacting him is not an option. I have contacted him a few times and he seemed to still have some anger. After the last time I seen him I wrote him a letter telling him if he was ever ready to let go of the anger, hurt or whatever it is that he can contact me and I told him I would not contact him again.

Well even knowing the updated info I would still contact him, do it with an open mind, remember you are both adults and that you both have feelings, emotions, issues etc. We also all have something called pride and its been an issue in many arguements never getting sorted out...we always feel that it's the other person who should make the first move...thing is if we all go around thinking like that nothing will ever be sorted. I speak from experience. Myself and my brother had a disagreement years and years ago, but both of us are as stubborn and as proud as the other, so I went without talking to my brother for about 8 years!!! Recently I took the plunge and went around to see him, it was the hardest thing that I had ever done but the result? We are now back on speaking terms and it feels great to have my bro back.
You said this man is a friend??? If he means THAT much to you then you can't let this drop. I wish I had plucked up the courage years ago so I wouldnt of felt that empty hole for all those years. We were acting like two year olds and it hurt like hell...So call him, if he gets angry then talk through it, course theres gonna be anger, he's probably as angry with himself than he is with you.

What a coincidence. I had just such a dream myself two days ago. (I work nights.) In my case, I believe that it was a sign that I had not let go of the most recent ex-girlfreind as completely as I liked to believe; or, possibly, that there was still some denial about the whole situation. If you can remember how you felt in the dream, or immediately upon waking, it may help.

Blessings.
Monk

Yes your dream is very signifigant, not many people get to experience what we know.
Lots of people live in regret and the old adage," IF ONLY"
Please take heed to the dream message,
He is Sorry and he misses you.
This was a very beautiful dream for you and he,
this was your guardian angel bringing to the forefront this mans feelings to you thru dream state.
Sweetheart i feel This man is depressed.
There's an old saying..." the only thing in life you regret are the risks you dont take."
But then again, this is your chose, your free will as to weather or not you want to call him.

I really would love to call or contact him. But, I have done so already and he still shows so much anger and says he don't want to talk about it. I can tell that maybe he would because I don't think he would still carry the anger around if he did not care. We were so close, he was like a best friend. I don't want to keep pushing him to talk if he is not going to talk. I keep thinking that maybe he will let go of the hurt/anger and contact me. If nothing more I want our friendship back but I know he has lots of hurt and more pride.

Well all I can say is that if this was me and my "best friend" and I had a dream like this then I would do my best to get this sorted. You asked for our opinions and we gave you them, a majority of us said that we "feel" that you should contact the guy and sort it out, what you do is up to you of course. Dreams like this shouldn't be ignored, you had it for a reason..

I guess I peed people off again so I have edited my last post. You must do what YOU REALLY feel is the right thing to do, but you need to make sure that leaving things is the best thing to do. What's right for one person may not work for someone else, so we could give you all the advice in the world and our views...whatever, there will be a conflict in that. If you can manage getting together with your friend in dream state all well and good, that might be the way to go but I know that many people (including myself) can struggle with this. My dreams are free flow, never structured and thats the way my mind works, you may be able to do the leading the dream thing better, experiment, see if it works...if not and you still care deeply about your friend then you may have to swallow your pride and do the hard thing by going to see them. I know Alora said that you should honor their wish to not see you but I hate to say this sometimes we dont know whats best for us at the best of times. If I had done that with my brother I would still be feeling like I have a huge hole in my life.
So you can see that everyone is different, It is your choice and I wish you luck

Thank you all for your advice and insight. It seems everyone thinks the same thing, that the dream really was telling me that he is sorry and misses me. I do feel that is true. I may end up trying to talk to him again, I just don't want to make him close up even more, that is how he is. He hides his feelings and he don't like to talk. I in no way plan to let this go, If it is the last thing I do I will make sure we are friends again. I just don't want to push things.

Thank you aloramyst. Where would I find the divination suite. I would like to check that out.

— aloramyst

I understand all about stubbornness Hedgewitch, but also that boundaries are a necessary part of our lives. My other recommendation is to do a reading. I also use readings to help clarify many things in my life as well as dreams. This would be a perfect time to have one done, as it could clarify alot for you. And LE has the new divination suite up and running wonderfully, with many options to help people. Check it out and see what you think.

Brightest Blessings on this journey.