Hi, I need some help. I haven't had any luck making new friends sinced I moved. I don't seem to get along with the people I work with either. I seem to be misunderstood and unliked. I am looking for any spell, charm or bath that will help me attract people to me and be more liked or interesting to others. I have been very unhappy lately and it is starting to take a toll on my confidence that I have. Please help!!

Look to the left, under Spellbook....then click on Friendship....then scroll down and you will find about 15 spells that Lady Elaine has posted....

Remember, if you are unhappy, that is what you are attracting. People are seeing unhappy, not a happy, confident person. Maybe before you work a spell, take a minute to evaluate your life and what you can do to bring happiness back into your life. You may not even need a spell to attract people to you, just change your perspective and find the joy in your life....people will notice and want to be close to you!

Many blessings,
DesertMist

Good advise DesertMist. I would say that like attracts like, so do some positive affirmations on your self esteme. Use them to ask the universe to bring people into your life, but remember we get what we wish for, so be specific on the type of people you wish to attract into your life.

Also quiet often when we are going through times like this it is the divines way of telling us we need to work on ourselves for a time. Clear some of the muck in your life and work on your self and people will come to you.

Good luck. And remember we are never alone.

Kath

Hello EnchantedWhiteLioness,


I went through similar issues when I moved last year. I didn't know any one and felt very alone.

The best advice I can offer you is to treat this as a time for new beginnings. I think at that time, I was meant to be introspective and work on myself as an individual. I did perform a few spells to assist me in meeting people, but I found the most important thing to come out of my magic during that period was the realization that I had to prepare my self in this new beginning before I made friends. Sure enough, once I had spent a period in introspection and organizing my new life to the point I was content with, I met a true friend exactly when I needed one the most.

As far as a ritual to get you through the time, try this:

Once you get home from work, perform your nightly chores of cleaning and preparation for the following day. Once you are finished, turn of your TV and radio. Go take a nice relaxing bath or shower, and when you get out, apply a lotion, cream, or oil in a scent you find most comforting. Go to your kitchen and make a cup of herbal tea, such as Chamomile, or pour a small glass of wine. Turn off all the lights and sit before your altar. Light a white candle. After this, talk about your deepest fears and hopes with your chosen Divine figure. Be deeply honest, and think about your underlying emotion in every word you speak. After you have finished, sit back and sip your tea until you are ready to go to bed.

I found that this small ritual was very theraputic. It's a bit draining the first few times you do it, but it gets your mind in order and helps you prepare you for your future friendships.

Many blessings.

Thank you for your replies. Funny thing, after I posted, things seemed to change. People at work have been friendlier to me all of a sudden. I am still going to do as you have all said. I do want to spend more time with myself. But people being nicer to me helps a bit. I just had a birthday and it seems that I had a shift in my life. Thank you all again... I think maybe your thoughts from afar has helped a bit allready.


Blessed Be

(friends) *Sending good vibes across the net* (friends)

Take care!

The Hopstotch Hoodlum

 Well just for a little update.  I ended up moving from that area.  And things are better here.  People around where I live now are much more friendlier.  

See ya didn't need a spell, ya just needed people of like minds with a friendlier attitude, much like the one you now have.


Glad things are looking brighter for you!