Let me start at the beginning. This woman and I were great friends. I considered her to be my best friend. We took a vacation with our daughters. After we got back she sent me hurtful letters through email and has been harrasing me. I have done everything I can to to put out the fire. I even wrote her back defending some of the things she said to me in the email. I eventually had to block her from my email, myspace, IM, etc. My daughter has even blocked all communications with her. Now for the worst part. Today she shows up at my door I go outside to see what she wants she starts being verbally abusive. I ask her sternly to get off my property and leave and she uses both hands with all her force she shoves me by smacking me with both hands in the chest. I almost fell backwards. I went into the house and called the police. Now when things first started going bad between us I thought about doing a spell to keep her from doing harm to me. I have read that you should not do spells when you are angry and you need to be careful because what you put out there you can get back three fold. This is where I need help. What can I do spell wise to bind her from harming me or my family. Can anyone out there help me do a spell or perform a spell for me. I want her gone out of my life forever. I don't want her to have the ability to harm me or my family. (EDITED FOR SAFETY BY ADMIN) She is 5'7" brown hair with blonde highlights. I can email a picture of her to anyone willing to help me. I would appreciate any help i can get. I will do the same for you or anyone who needs help with something. Thanks so much..

I don't know for sure, and others here can probably help with this, but I think, when they talk about not doing a spell when angry, they mean that you shouldn't be "in a rage".  There is an amount of anger that is healthy, and concern for your safety is an issue.  If this were my case, and I have been in similar cases with a woman, just like that, I would just do some relaxation exercises, and take a "ritual bath" to release the negativity.  That really does calm me down quite a bit, and then I can focus to do my spellwork.  In this case, your anger is justified and in a healthy way, in my opinion, (please take it as just that), can aid you in your spell.  Don't forget, however, to take the time to think about how you will do your spell (corresp., etc.)  That, in itself, can help to calm you down.  At least it does for me.

Firstly, please edit your posting and remove her address from it. This is not cool to post such things online. If anyone wishes to help you it is not needeed, and amy end up with her being sent things she does not need, want nor, well you get the drift. You I'm sure would not want anyone putting your personal info out there, even under these circumstances.  

Secondly take all the mundane steps you need to protect yourself and your family first. file police reports. Get a restraining order if you need to. since she has shown up on your property uninvited and has been physical, this should not be an issue. also make sure you keep ALL correspondances between you two. Yours as well showing yo are not doing anything to bring about such actions from her.

Follow seamonsters advice, get your emotions under control so yours do not feed into the mess. If you look in the spell book I'm sure you will find a spell to protect yourself and your house.

Binding someone is a tricky thing, I think last thing you would want is to bind her further TO you, as this happens.

I think any actions taken should merely be the protect yourself type, and nothing directive.

Sending whatever energies for support you might need out for you.

Welcome to our castle, and please introduce yourself to the group.  We have a number of spells in our spell book that may be useful to you in this situation.  As we do not know specifically why the woman has had such a violent reaction to you, I personally cannot recommend a binding.  Novia is correct that you must pursue legal defense if your family is in danger--that is a definite first step.  For protection of your family, I would actually recommend creating a couple of witch's bottles.  Today would be a perfect day to banish negativity and danger from your household, as it's a waning moon on Monday.  Perform a combined banish spell while constructing the bottles, but I would not necessarily recommend focusing on this woman in general.  Make is a general spell; the most specific you want to be is perhaps guarding against negative people.

Must say I very much agree with Novia and Stacey.  The last thing I would do is a binding spell as this can back fire if not do properly and she will be with you forever.  As they have both said there are plenty of protection  things you can do to help.

For me personally I wondered what had gone on on your vacation together.  I understand there are unstable people in the world but was there something that triggered this?

Best of luck to you.

Kath

LOL Kath I thought that, but wasn't gonna go there! lol

Well I didn't want to sound like I am blaming anyone, but sometimes things happen and get a little out of hand, feelings hurt and if your dealing with someone who verges on troubled say no more.  

But if I were in the position I would try to look at all sides of the situation.  And I have been in a situation with an ex friend that became nasty.  And after looking at it from her perspective I saw my part in the thing.  Sometimes it only takes something small to trigger it. We may not always want to acknowledge blame in a situation because the first defence is to protect yourself and family, but maybe there is more to it.  Sometimes these things can be sorted with the everyday easy ways.  But definetly not a binding.