Merry Meet!

I am looking for a spell to help some friends of mine. A male married friend of mine is having an affair with a woman who has also endeared herself to two other male friends, both who are also married. They all hang out together quite often. The wives don't have a clue. This "woman" has a strange hold on these men. They do whatever she says. She has now pretty much destroyed my friendship with them. I see what she is doing, but no one else seems to. I am looking for a spell or ritual that I can do to help them open their eyes and see the hold she has over them and help them find the strength to get their own will back. Any suggestions?

Any help would be much appreciated.
SisterWolf

two words for ya FREE WILL, sorry for the caps. One can't interfer with another without presmission from that person first, I am not a witch but I believe that is a loose translation. One of a few things need to happen your friends give you the okay or the woman gives you the okay. However, and correct me if I am wrong a protection type spell might aid your male friends in the hold that she has on them.

These are adults, making adult choices. Albeit not the ones you particularly care for.

BUT...to try and manipulate their Free Will is not something any of us will get involved in.

My suggestion.....talk to this woman you say is your firend and tell her how you feel.

The Spell I recommend......
Good ole fashioned....Communication ....simply put...talk to her and the guys if you are so concerned....

We are not in a place to judge others for how they act. It isn't affecting you personally other than you are peeved....let em know!

ANY GOOD friend would say something.

Blessings Bright and Dark,

Thank you for your replies. I did not want to cast a spell to affect their free will. I understand free will, at least I thought I did. She has taken away their free will. I've never seen three grown men act this way. It is just really hard to sit back and watch longtime friends be controlled by this woman. She bosses them around and they do what she says. They go when and where she tells them to. They associate only with who she wants them to. I am not jealous of her; I have a wonderful husband and family. I don't like losing my friends because of someone elses manipulations, though. I do know the difference between rituals and spells. I am not new to the craft, just naive when it comes to people and their motives. I thought this woman was a friend until I began to see changes in my friends because of her. She is the one who saw my friendship with them as a threat. I guess my best course of action is just to take a step back and lose their friendship with hopes that all things pass with time and she will get bored and move on or their eyes will open on their own. When and if this happens, I will still be there to be their friend.
Brightest Blessings to All
SisterWolf

Sounds like the best thing to do to me. big thumbs up.

Thank you CoyoteMoon for your understanding reply. This woman may not have the power to take their free will away but she is a very strong, controlling personality. The latest example: The one man she is most involved with and considers him her "boyfriend" has been a friend of mine for years. For the past 3-4 years, he has become interested in chakras since he first experienced his brow chakra opening during a therapeutic massage. Since then, from time to time he talks to me about it. He recently described a brief astral travel experience while he was starting to fall asleep. He didn't know what it was, so I emailed him some information. He never got it. She monitors his email. She has asked another pagan friend of mine about chakras and astral travel so she can learn about it so he won't have to ask me about it anymore. I dropped off a book to him about chakras anyway. I haven't gotten any more emails from him.

About a month ago, I did try to tell him there is something he needs to see, something he needs to understand. He doesn't know she is involved with the other two friends of ours. I did try to tell him, but he didn't believe me so I let the matter drop.

I guess it's such a long story and hard to explain it here. I wouldn't have considered a spell to help them open their eyes if I thought there was any other way to help them. I didn't see that just wanting them to have a little clarity and perspective was taking away their free will so I thank everyone here for pointing that out to me and reminding me, "Harm None". In the meantime, I miss my friends and hope that it will out work out the way it is supposed to. You all did help me immensely. Thanks for being here.
SisterWolf

Blessed Be SisterWolf,
I can feel what you are saying and yes it is very hard to see our friends got off the path (so to speak) but like everyone has said it is their free will, tough words but very true!!!
this women has not taken their will maybe she has quided it through nice words, tender touches, and seductive smiles. please remeber that most men I know have 2 heads and they can only use one at a time.
Have a Blessed Day
Bri

I may be way outta line here, but just had to say somthing. First of all, I agree with what the others have said, great advice has been given. I just thought that perhaps that you might have a talk with the Goddess. Sort of a one on one if you will. Open your heart and speak your feelings to Her, and ask that the best for all happen, and step back and watch what happens. Free will is a toughie at times, but it is a gift we have and blessings are both light and dark. One never stops learning.

*Hope this makes some sense

As a man, at least the last time I checked, I let my heart lead the way the "heads" will follow.