ok so this might not fal into the catergory of ghosts, but then again.....

Son and I were texting back and forth tonight. My cell phone rings, it says it is Brandon/Son calling me. I figure he got tired of texting, except there is a womans voice on the other end, deep and raspy. ' Kim, Carol's friend' she says. A chill hits me like a shitload of bricks. I ask who the... and she hangs up. I know that voice. Kim, my sister. Dead now since last year. (BTW my name is Carol!)

I hit the green phone and redial the last number that called me, my Son, and it rolls into a voicemail of a young woman. Def NOT my son! I hang up hit the same redial as I just did, and son answers, he's flipppin freakin!

OK deep breath Brandon, he goes on to tell me he just got a call from my phone looking for Kim. A womans, deep raspy voice, trying to find Kim. She hangs up. He gets a voicemail while I am trying to calm him. I have him hang up and check it. It is a young womans voice, but it says it came from my phone, and I'm on my phone. He does a conference call , me, him and voicemail it is the same young woman's voice that I got when I called him, onn redial from the raspy womans voice call.

So we both have calls from each others phone's, same voices, and he's in a car full of guys, and I'm sitting home, everyone else asleep.

My Sister has been popping into my dreams and thoughts of late.

Then with all the VA school stuff.

Novia,I believe we can be contacted in different ways,I experience something like that except no one would say anything when I would hang up and then pick up there would be no dial tone.This happened right after my mom passed away,at night the phone would ring no one there,then when my dad died the phone rang twice no one there,I read somewhere that sometimes a loved one can try to contact you thru the phone.Also my parents visit me in my dreams,those are the best visits,when I wake I feel so comforted,and blessed

Not being nosey Epona.

She and I were not on good terms. I hadn't actually even seen or heard from her until her sister died a few years prior, my dad adopted both of them when we were younger from his next wife after he and mom divorced, then my moms second hubby adopted me, so family tree kinda screwey kinda like one of those twisted willows, lol. Especially since she married dads cousin! lol. Anyway off on a tangent there.

She and I had some serious issues from childhood. something we never really got resolved. She contracted hep c, which eventually killed her. We had a closed motuh understanding. She was my big sis, granted she totally screwed up my head as a kid, but I understood the life she suffeered that made her the way she was.

We had this 'other worldly' bond, that just let us know what was going on in each others hearts, without saying anything. I know she loved me, but coldn't get past guilt born issues.

She knew she was dying. The love of her life had just passed a month or so prior to her downswing. She lost her fight and was ready to go on, because he had been her strength. At his funeral was the first time we really connected again. When I came in she hng on to me like she had never done before, and nearly drained me, but that was ok, she needed my strength at the time, and even for awhile later.

She is at peace now. I know this. Maybe just a note to let me hear, that she still was, my friend. Not sure what was up with son's end of it though. She spent her whole life trying to outrun her Self, maybe now she is trying to find her Self.

Sorry just leting the mind and the fingers have a few moments together to muddle thru it, lol, just taking you guys along for the ride, my bad.

Starlily it is always comforting to have those visits.

Hi Novia

I am getting very much a sense that she wished she had been closer to you earlier and a sense of sadness that your being brought together was not under happier circumstances. Your sister is also thankful to you for being you. She was greatly comforted by your support and strength. For your son, she wasn't as close as she wanted, but didn't know how to change that and she regrets this, she is very proud of him too, and she does watch over him. The message I keep getting is "move". For you to let go of what was, it serves nothing for you now. Your regrets of the past cannot assist you except to tie you to something that you need to let go of.

I don't know how this works, last time I got a strong sense of "message" was with Scully (at FMP) when she was having strange things going on with her phone. It really doesn't happen often, but then I've been working on chakra cleaning and angel meditation and I have had some angel healing recently, so maybe that has something to do with it.

Love & Light
Rowan

I have chills just thinking about it!!!! Lol! I have read on paranormal investigation sites that spirits have been known to contact through the phone. I do have a question though, and it may seem kinda wierd. Have you been smelling things at random that remind you of her? Maybe her favorite perfume or something? The reason why I ask is that spirits sometimes let you know that they are there by smell. For the longest time after my mother died when i was a little girl I would smell carnations. They were my mothers favorite flower. It wasn't until many years later with some paranormal research, that it was my mother letting me know she was there.