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Posted Sun Jul 22, 2007 7:55 pm...
Well, my family is trying to sell my home, but for all the wrong reasons. It is beautiful, and I have grown to love it. They want to move because the simply think I am "unhappy" about the people who live around us. It is the complete opposite. I have tried to talk to them, but they won't listen.

Is there any type of spell or charm someone could lead me to or point me in the right direction?
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Posted Sun Jul 22, 2007 9:26 pm...
Cccassseeyy selling a house is a really big thing, could there be more to it than what you have put in here? The only thing I would say to you is that if your family all live in this house that there are more peoples paths to think of than just your own, so you should step back look at everyone involved and see if this is the right step for the family as a whole. Apart from this keep trying to talk with them about the issue of selling. I really think that using a spell to not sell the house is interfering in other peoples life paths not just your own and you should think seriously about that.

You know there could be more reasons for the wanting to sell.

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Posted Sun Jul 22, 2007 9:28 pm...
Sorry went ahead and posted before I finished my train of thought.

May be you should sit down and write out the reasons why you don't want to move and then approach your family to find out all the reasons why they want to sell and go from there.
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Posted Sun Jul 22, 2007 10:26 pm...
Hey Casey, I hae to agree with Kath here. I think magickal intervention is not always a resort for some matters.

Parents generally do not simply sell because kids are unhappy, unless you have exhbited sme seriously severe signs of being that way.

Sit them down and have a good heart to heart, get them to spill ALL their reasons for selling. then have them do the same for you, fair is fair when it comes t a decision like this, but.....

Alas, in the end, the decision is theirs, it comes with being the adult/parent, and not all of our decisions make our kids happy.

If you are serious about wanting to stay there, then see yourself in your mind being there. Feeling it in your heart, knowing it simply is a fact, no if's and's or but's about it, cause if you have one single doubt, then pack up shoog, cause you're in for a move.

BTW welcome to the group, looks like you've only made one post before this one, and I know I have missed the intros of alot of folks in my absence.


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Posted Tue Jul 24, 2007 5:11 am...
You have all made good points, but they seem to not understand what they are doing. They keep telling me it is for my best interest because we live in a "bad area" with "bad people". I think it's slightly discriminating in a sense because I have a feeling they are referring to a specific group.

I just don't want them to pack up and go just because of other people not being able to get along.
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Posted Tue Jul 24, 2007 6:52 am...
Well I agree with what Novia said, and that sometimes parents make decisions that their children don't always understand or like. They may also be making it with your best interests at heart even if you don't think so. Maybe they see you getting into company they would prefer not to see. Speaking from the stand point of a parent I know I have made decisions my kids have not thought were fair, right, even understandable. But I was the parent and could see the greater picture on the point. I am not saying your parents are doing the right or wrong thing, or that you are right or wrong, just that you may want to step out side the circle and try to see the situation from your parents point of view. And trust me one day you will be making decisions your kids will be looking at and thinking thats not fair.

At last as Novia said just picture yourself staying in the house, use positive reinforcement that if you are meant to stay in that house and if it is for the better of the family whole, than you will stay.

Sorry if this is not exactly what you wanted. My best to you thought, that all turns out as it should.

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Posted Sun Oct 07, 2007 11:07 pm...
So what has happened? Did they sell the home? If not why not do many spells to clean up the area. Make it a nicer place. Make the people that are not the so great or nice ones become better. Do you know what I mean? Make it a good thing for everyone all around. Wishing you the best of luck
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