Most people who discover Wicca become very concerned that they cannot find a coven to join. Though being part of a group can be very helpful when learning any new things, I don't consider it necessary. Reading books can teach you a great deal, and you can learn at your own pace. Some traditions in Wicca (Gardnerian, for example) require coven initiations because much of their teachings are only available in such a way. But solitary Wicca is becoming an acceptable path as well, and coven participation is not mandatory.
This isn't about how to find a coven, or how to start one. Just simply some things to think about if you are considering joining one. Some traditionalists say that you must be initiated into a coven in order to call yourself "Wiccan", but I prefer to take a less-formal approach and let each person decide for themselves.
Good Reasons to Join
You're interested in a tradition such as Gardnerian or Alexandrian. The beliefs and rituals of both these traditions are passed down from one coven to the next and typically not shared with outsiders. In order to truly understand what they are all about, you must be properly initiated.
You're looking to expand your horizons. There is certainly nothing wrong with doing ritual on your own, but it is a whole new experience doing ritual in a group. Being in a coven can teach you a lot about your own spirituality.
You need some structure. Face it, some people just don't get anything done unless there is some external motivation. Being in a group can help you keep your studies and spiritual growth on track.
You just like being part of a group. Group rituals raise more energy, and it can be lonely as a solitary.
Poor Reasons to Join
You feel you have to. Though some traditions to require coven membership, you can happily follow a Wiccan path without belonging to any group.
You want to have fun. Well, covens most certainly have fun together, and some covens are less formal than others; but it is a serious commitment to join a group and you should take it seriously. If you just want a social experience, I suggest finding a meeting group in your area instead.
You're only interested in scholarly study. Study and learning are a big part of coven life, but there is an emotional component as well. As time passes, most coven members grow together like a family. If you do not want that kind of bond, you may be better off finding just a study group or take some classes.
Please note these are not hard and fast rules by any means. Just some things to think about.
If you decide that joining a coven is right for you, make sure to do some research! Talk to people, ask lots of questions and go with your gut. If something seems 'off' about a group of people, then keep looking.
If you are a solitary Wiccan, the idea of a coven may be a little intimidating. A little research can help you get more comfortable with the idea, especially if you are looking to work with others. Reading about covens can also help those already in a coven, to improve the organization of the group.
Here are 4 top books on joining covens:
1. The Witch's Coven
By Edain Mccoy.
A good introduction to the workings of a coven. This book can be helpful for any solitary interested in covens, or for anyone starting a coven.
2. Covencraft: Witchcraft for Three or More
By Amber K.
Another excellent book to introduce you to the way a coven works. A little bit of research can go a long way when you are looking to start a group, or to join one.
3. Wicca Covens: How to Start Your Own
By Judy Harrow.
This book is specifically written for those starting their own covens. It's written by a high priestess and outlines the various things that worked (or didn't work) for her when forming a coven.
4. Witches Bible
By Janet and Stewart Farrar.
Though not a book specifically on covens, the material in the Witches Bible is written from a coveners perspective.
Here are a few articles:
How to Keep Your Coven from Being Destroyed, an essay series by Eran
Some tips on how to maintain harmony within your coven. www.wargoddess.net/essay/troll.php
So You Want to Join a Coven?
A thoughtful article on covens, for the solitary who is looking to join. www.ecauldron.com/groupjoin.php
Thoughts on Joining a Coven
Joining a coven requires serious commitment. This article provides some questions to ask about when looking to join a group. www.tangledmoon.org/thoughts_coven.htm
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