Hey guys. �
It's a very long story to tell why ,so I'll keep it to my question.
I'm searching something, potions or herb-thingies to make which I can use to realize which desires are real. I am searching something to help me find my real dreams and wishes, to know what I want for sure so I don't make same mistakes all over again. (Cuz that's what happens all the time, I have doubts, don't know what I want and then I make the wrong choices, again and again.)
It doesn't help to think about it, it doesn't help to visualize what I really want cuz from one day to the other my mind can change...but since real dreams doesn't change but just hide in your mind, in silence I don't know �:roll: , I believe that maybe a potion could be very usefull for me.

Can someone help me with this? �

Greetings,
Drya

Hi Drya,

I think this is a very wise use of magic. I think the best way to go about such a potion would be to center the potion on purity and clarity of the spirit.

You will want to prepare your potion at night, as the night is the time of greatest symbolism for inner truth.
You could debatibly do this in any phase of the moon.

Base your potion in spring water.

I think the best herbs would be those associated with femininity, the moon, and water:
lemon balm
bladderwrack
camellia (don't consume)
camphor (don't consume)
coconut
cotton (don't consume)
cucumber

Since this is a bit of an odd list for a potion, I would suggest a simple ritual using these ingredients:

Before going to bed at night, prepare a warm herbal bath with lemon balm oil or herb. Pour your srping water over ice and add a few slices of cucumber. Enjoy your bath with the cucumber water, clearing your mind of thought. When you feel it is time to get out of the bath, use coconut oil as a moisturizer. Hop in bed and pray or send intention letting the universe know you feel prepared for the truth of your purpose.

I've had execellent results with similar rituals in the past. I hope this works for you.

Drya, I can't help but think the answer you're seeking may not be found in a potion. i believe you were correct in that it is already within YOU. It appears you're looking for a shortcut to finding something specific in your life. Remember: no journey is too great when one finds what they seek. Your past choices may not have worked out as intended. However, turn those negative results into positive ones. You now know those options are NOT the path you want to take to achieve your desires. Stop and evaluate what exactly you were trying to accomplish when you made those bad choices and why you wanted whatever you were seeking. Take the time to actually write all these things down and study them. I'd guess that some pattern will reveal itself to you. Best of luck to you.

Blessings,

DracoMoonstone

Thanks Draco, but I have a serious dead-line (2 weeks to be honest)... sure I can take my time, but it's not fair if my parents have to pay for my mistakes, you know? I can think about it a year, even 10 years - I'm not in a hurry, but it just doesn't feel right to take so much time while I still live home. It's for my own good and also for my parents that I need a solution as soon as possible. It's not about love, starting a family etc - I still have lots and lots of time to think about those... it's about studies,career and its dead-line.
I appreciate your opinion, really  - but it just drives me nuts right now, I need ''something'' to hold on.. to give me the strenght etc, that's why I was thinking of potions or something.  

Stacey, thank you! I'm gonna give it a try, at least for the stuff I can find here right now.  
Thanks for sharing your opinion about desires! Feminity, purity, inner truth... I didn't think about those before, so I hope it can work for me. ^^

If someone else know something usefull, please let me know.  

Not a problem Drya. My daughter starts college in September. On that note, I offer this suggestion: Most colleges have "core" classes that you have to take no matter what your major course of study is. If you do not have to declare a major yet, then don't. Get your core classes out of the way first. This should buy you some time to give more thought to what direction you want your life to go in.  If you're beyond that point in your education, I'm affraid it can get a little tricky. Just think about what means a lot to you. Do you like to help others? Cooking? Art? Politics? Sometimes it may seem that the choice you made turned out to be more difficult than you thought it would be, and you become discouraged. I can only tell you the same thing I tell my daughters:1)Anything worth having is worth working or fighting for, and 2)What you get out of your studies equals the effort you put into them. If anything else, know this: No matter how difficult it is to travel down any path, it always feels great once you've reached the end of it. And the more difficult that path may be, the sweeter it is once you've reached that end I wish you the very best of luck Drya.

Blessings,

Draco