I've been with the same man for 19 almost 20 years. Lately I have been dreaming about a man that completely turns me on and the odd thing is that it is my spouse but as if he was a different person, I.E job, hair style, clothes, and personality. The whole thing is that it really is a major turn on; it feels like I never knew him at all. Has anyone ever had this happen to anyone or is it my hormones out of whack?

I sometimes have similar dreams about my spouse. I recall one where he was a blonde woman and I went up to her, and started talking. This woman had his eyes, his energy signature - everything about him was there, except that it was encased in this female form. And when I spoke to this woman, she had no idea who I was and acted as though we had never met. I often wonder if in the dream, I was looking at one of his past or future lives. I didn't feel anything in particular about it though.

No I wouldn't say your hormones are out of whack, but it does sound like you are having crossovers of lives he has had, and by the sounds of it, you were involved in those lives as well.

go with it. could be an interesting twist to a long relationship.  

hey, they say fantasy is a good pick me up for  long term relationship! Tey just never stated how 'long' the relationship, lol.