People with psychic abilities who experience visions and such about other people sometimes run into a problem. its the problem i'm experiencing at the moment. when you get a warning about someone, that they're in danger and such and they are not involved in the craft how do you warn them? I keep getting visions about a friend of mine that he's in danger of an attack. so i asked him if i could make a protection charm for his house as a housewarming gift. he said yes and i did and he put it in his bedroom. b4 that the visions showed him being attacked in his house after this tho the visions kept comming but now he was being attacked in this park he frequents. i tried tellong him about this warning but although he said hed be careful, he's not taking me seriously. i have no idea what to do. and the visions are getting more insistent. i thought well if i'm trying my best and its not working mabey it was meant to happen, but then why am i getting these visions if im not meant to change it!!!!! any other perspectives would be welcome as i care about this person and short of turning into the crazy stalker lady (which im pretty close to right now) i'm out of ideas.

Did that already. did several in fact and asked my long time teacher from the WCC to help me in case personal issues were interefering with the readings and it all came up the same: he's in danger, i'm seeking to help. i never act without 1st looking at all sides of teh issue and delve into all the possibilities, esp if i may come out looking liek teh craze stalker lady. we even looked into why Im the one getting these visons and we found that we have a unusually strong link teh nature of which i wont get into here. Which could very well be the reason i'm getting warnings about him even if i havent been able to change it or may not even be meant to change it. but that doesnt really matter. all i see is someone i care about could possible get hurt badly and i cannot just sit around and twiddle my thumbs. If it comes down to it and there really isnt anything i can do then i will let things go but i wont be happy about it.

*sigh* deep down i know your right, but i still feel like I failed him. i guess i will just have to ask the goddess's aid in letting go and moving on. its always hard to accept you dont control the universe lol.

thanx i do feel somewhat better. i do tend to doubt myself deep down even when im proven right most of the time. when noone else experiences these things you start to wonder about ur sanity.

You sound like I did 4 years ago. I was seeing the death of my boyfriend. As I changed him, it changed, yet always the same. With the same results him dying. I flat out told him after the most vivid vision. Immediately following the visions I would write everything down, perhaps to catch something that was important that I did not deem as important. It turns out I knew things I should not have known, besides him actually dying. Something that was actual proof to a non believer that perhaps this person is not crazy but only tell the truth to protect them. In the middle of dinner I asked if he would not take any road trips. It suddenly quiet as people wondered how I knew. Then I just told him. How, when, yet not so much as why. Just that he was going to die. He took it pretty well considering, but it didnt change the fact that he died. Perhaps that is why I still see him, and he lingers close.

Maybe you are not suppose to stop it, but learn from it. If I had not prepared myself for the possiblities that this could actually happen I would not have been strong enough to continue standing when it did actually happen. learn from it, let it guide you, and help you. I remember when I saw for the first time the truth, another stood beside me and said "do not hate the messenger it is just a message, what you do with the information is up to you. " So perhaps hate the message but whatever you do, do not lose faith! Good luck! I hope some of this ramble perhaps helped somewhere somehow.

I have had experiences such as these and dealt with them.....but one i wasn't sure how to deal with(mostly because it was a first time for me) was getting a message from someone who had recently passed. My cousin passed, and i went to Virginia for the funeral and stayed a week to spend time with family. My cousin came to me and asked me to relay messages to his wife and son....but i didn't know how to do so without sounding crazy and i felt it wasn't the right time either. I wrote his messages down with hopes of passing them on to the intended recipients at a later date.

Any helpful tips on this matter or similar experiences???????????

beyond,

It would behoove you to tell the relatives of your cousin the messages he gave you. To hide such information is not only disrespectful to the deceased, but cruel to the family as well.

I know you thoughts were on protecting the family. But by hiding this from them you are denying something that they might need to hear for closure. Never underestimate how people may or may not react to information of this nature. It is not yours to decide. The information was for you to pass on to them....not protect them from.

Blessings Bright and Dark,

Sorry I missed this one.

I agree one hundred percent.

You don't have to come straight out and say I have a message, that will freak them out, but convey the message in a less freakish manner. Take it back to a conversation the two of you had prior or something.

There are many ways to pass messages on, without coming across as a total loon.

I've had my fair share of run in's with passed souls, and will post it again since it was eaten in the backup. sometimes we often even wonder ourselves if we have lost it, let alone sharing it with others to judge us.